dreamland

To be loyal

2012-02-04T22:07:00.000-08:00

Its good to be a part of a fraternity.... We all want to be a part of something since the age we actually start forming ideas....Though I cannot lay enough stress on the importance of living in a way your conscious allows you to, but sometimes its more gratifying to stick with what you believed in and accepting the consequences ..

The first thing that comes into my mind when i say loyal is the wagging tail and absolutely kissable face of my dog ... He is so loyal that our family is most important to him ( after food and bitches ofcourse, but thats how it should be) , but think what if your pet becomes angry at you at every little thing you do and not treat you affectionately ? Do you actually believe that you are THAT nice ?

I cannot say that everything my friends or family do are acceptable to me... I love it when my little brother corrects my spellings and pronounciations , though I hate it when he plagiarises... Similarly sometimes its difficult to believe that how do my friends live with their absolutely stupid decisions( or well maybe I'm being stupid)

I mean sometimes i find it fun to defend something, aware that I might be wrong in a certain manner , mostly because of the little ego thing and also to make others hyterical ...

Dont we love our country no matter what?

Life is a mixture of love and hate and we should try to stick to what we have till its even more painful to stay with them, appreciate the good in your relationships and ignore the small tiffs , till it becomes a crack..

P.S. : This post is dedicated to Shahrukh khan , whose loyal fan I will be till he actually does another 20-30 dud roles ;P

picture taken from the web

A little of this, a lot of that

2011-12-11T04:33:00.001-08:00

There are sometimes things which make the most happy go lucky person on the earth, or the most timid of all people feel as if they were made of playdough and somebody just put their hand inside their pericardium and make them realise that their heart bleeds.......

Its been three years ,when a group of teenagers trained by the most dangerous of the evil minds in the world came and shocked the world and killed innocent commuters , just like that...

We all are wierd, theres some genetics playing a part wherein we learn to move on if we survive no matter how difficult the situation becomes.... When I was younger I used to feel that this nature is a mean and selfish thing and it should go away through evolution but this makes us what we are...

Whenever you go to a self pity mode or feel like a victim of the world at large ; and deep inside you know, nobody else can help you.... Just feel happy to be alive, there are a thousands of reasons.... The most important being , an emotionally bonded society , bonds of survival, of the lucky ones who just cant stop living..:)

take a look at these group of individuals, a little bit of dance can trigger a lot of emotions :)

enjoy

I am sorry, Irishmen!

2011-09-19T03:23:00.000-07:00

It was a thursday afternoon, I was in my hostel after a long and rainy day. I walked into the mess as the lunch was still being served. As soon as I reached the mess; the brightly coloured chairs do make you feel pleasant ; checked out the menu :

Brinjal aaloo it said, with somehow , a crooked j ,which looked like a pirate's wooden leg which we see so often in movies and then , a cat purred...

..... Its a really healthy cat we have in the mess, unlike the others who loiter around outside ... and boy!! it had a wicked face. The plate in my hand was still and my legs were fixed for a moment or two, till someone shooed it away.

I was just trying to imagine what would i do if i ever came face to face with a tiger, given the condition i went into looking at a cat and telling God He had given a characteristic bullying feature to the cat family , which atleast I didn't had.

And then came the life changing moment in my life, i took a serve of the brinjal-aloo(aloo= potatoees, for those who dont know)... It looked not bad ....It looked as if somebody had made mashed potatoes but added a lot of seeds and big red chillies in it,still i was :).. let me explain my love for potatoes briefly:

As a vegetarian who hated paneer , the one and only vegetable which had never disappointed me in all these years is potatoes along with a few others ; but seriously , my love for potatoes is so much that I love to believe that somewhere I have some Irish genes inside me... So I had practically never disliked potatoes in any form they were served to me ... and then i took a bite of the dish we know as brinjal aloo,

It was like eating a mollusc who had diarrhoea

It was as if you had a rat's intestine in lunch with undigested grains

It was like somebody puked inside the vessel in which it was made

I saw my room mate eating it happily and bombed her with atleast ten questions:

Q. What is it?

A. Brinjal aaloo..its written na..

Q. why is it white ???

A. (counter question) what else would it be?

A2. I have never eaten this vegetable this way. It used to be yellowish in my previous hostel

Q. Do you like it?

A. Uhuh..

Q. But theres nothing pleasant in it

A. Eat your Dal then

Q. Do you like potatoes?

A. yes, i do

I try eating the dish and not leaving leftovers in potato form,

feel disgusted ,

give up

Q. Do you mind if i write a blog about this dish and tell everybody how bad it was?

A, (smiling) I wont mind.

I would have taken a picture for you guys but didn't had my phone with me, but now I plan to be camera ready whenever I go to have a meal..

to let live...

2011-08-31T04:19:00.000-07:00

http://www.thehindu.com/opinion/op-ed/article2412675.ece?homepage=true

I just came across this article published in The Hindu. And sincerely , i dont know whether I will ever be ready to form an opinion on whether there should be a right to take lives for the sake of justice or not.

I dont know why there is no consensus amongst people from all over the world for this, but capital punishment is for the rarest of the rare cases indeed and mostly it is for the humans who are uncapable of reform; still the thought , what if the person wasnt guilty or what if it was an accident or what if there was a scope of reform? makes one shudder!!

confusion! confusion!

2011-08-27T08:51:00.000-07:00

old habits die hard, they say.But it gives me a sense of relief ; atleast they die in this phrase.

Everywhere around me , i see a lot of people, chasing their dreams. Somebody paints and makes the canvas alive; somebody else sing like the music is made for them; people dance so well ; people support Anna Hazare..... It is as if everybody is made to do something really special and original in their life....

But nobody tells them what they have to do, people just seem to have an instinct about what they are good at... There are some things which make you forget the ticking of the clock, everything else comes a step behind it..

I just felt it today,

The time stopped,

the people became nicer,

brain starting churning ( after five years or more)

and i spoke , and people listened... i argued they seemed convinced ....

And then i realise :

Damn it , they are still better than you :( :P :) ;)

confession of a " punjabi "

2011-08-08T04:32:00.000-07:00

Oh hellow my dear fellow,

I get up in the morning, with a cheery face,

I go to a walk at an abnormal pace,

To each and everyone i wave and greet,

most of them find it wierd and some think i am sweet ;)

I live to laugh , eat and sleep,

I love my vacations on my jeep,

I love to be surrounded by thousands of people,

Chotu does my work as i like to keep it simple..

I love to speak more than anyone,

(even if i dont know the topic),(( oh heck it is fun!!,))

money is nothing a long as it keeps on coming,

It helps me woo the girl who is most stunning..

I dont look for troubles but still they find me,

and in amusing troubles do they land me,

I might aswell be the loudest of all,

If you are in trouble my friend; just gimme a call ;)

Who blames wins

2011-08-02T06:28:00.000-07:00

We, the people of India , have solemnly resolved to be the be the biggest frauds, cheaters and sadists in the world.

We have made sure that our country is the biggest in scams in the whole world.

If i had my own school... the most important question in the paper of the social studies in my school would have been :

list the scams of India for 2010-2011 in chronological order, The child who answers atleast 10 in detail would get good marks.

Once a family went to a national park , on seeing an antelope, the five year old child asks, what animal is this, father?

A buck, replies the father.

oh so this is what the politicians pass everynight at the news!!!

In our law college i expect at the case studies , they tell us the sillest defences against scams by the Indians.

Or Maybe when a history book will be published twenty years from now, there will be a question to the students: Which of the following Prime Ministers claimed that he knew nothing that was happening under his nose , in five different scams in the late 2000??

fool for forests

2011-07-18T11:34:00.000-07:00

When i used to crib about bad roads in India; they made it right...... but today passing through the wide highway, i see the cut trees and think , if only concrete could photosynthesise ;

what must the trees be thinking when they are being cut?

'if only they realise, that sooner or later they would themselves pay the price'

of brats and brags

2011-07-01T05:14:00.000-07:00

If you are wondering what this blog post is about; its a story about friendship :), but its not a cheezy ooh i miss my friends ; its a super cheezy how dare you say that to MY friend !!! (ohh i hope this gets you hooked) read on to find out...

About five min ago, while browsing my facebook account, i came accross a topic thread started by one of my dentist graduation days , classmate( call her subject ; jane doe).

Lemme give you a description about our jane doe

young age in middle twenties ,caucasian;

filthy rich daddys, super female animalish brat. Peta people hate her cz she wears animal skin; even when its so out of fashion.( yeah yeah i may be getting too hot on her ; but hey its my blog and she tried to insult my MY best friend , come on be with me, did i write anything in the blog when she unsuccessfully tried making fun of me?)

Now this jane duh , is doing some post grad in dentistry only( yes offcourse based on merit as she claims ((. . . of her fathers business !! rofl)) )... and today she had the guts to tell my friend, my best friend , whos amongst the toppers of our batch that it too bad that my friend will never get a chance to do what shes doing..how will she jane doe , i ask you, will get a chance when there are people like you in the way liquidating our profession with multi - millions from daddy dearest??

Today is doctors day and i hope that after becoming a lawyer i can convince the dental/medical council guys to have a better way of selection atleast in postgraduate courses. With almost 50% caste and nri sponsership quota where will a normal middle class graduate go?

BUT the question is, i want you to tell me , what would you do , if somebody tries to make your friends sad.. please tell me , i might apply some innovative answers myself..

plan a trip to manali

2011-06-30T04:11:00.000-07:00

Location :

One of the important hill stations of the state of Himachal Pradesh is Manali, located at a height of 6,398 ft. near the northern end of the Kullu Valley,it is at a distance of about 250 kilometers, from the state's capital Shimla.

Manali is a town of the kullu distt. with a total population of around 30,000.

The place has a rich culture and heritage.

From delhi it would take about 10 hours by road, to travel 562 kms.Manali is well connected by road with Delhi, Ambala, Chandigarh, Dehradun, Haridwar, Shimla, Dharamsala and Chamba/Dalhousie. Regular buses ply between these stations. It is connected with Leh during July to October.

Bhuntar Airport in Kullu is the nearest airport to Manali, which is approximately 50 km away. There are regular flights from Delhi to Kullu, from Air Deccan and Jagson Airways.

Climate

The summers are cool and the winters prove to be very harsh. During the winters the snow line comes down and there is snowfall in the region and heavy woollen cloths are required. During the monsoon months due to heavy rainfall there are landslides, which hamper movement. The best time to visit Manali is May and October but one can visit this place during winters too.

Places to stay:

Theres a place for everyone in this small himachal town, depending on how much you want to spend. if going with a big group book some exclusive cottages which would increase the fun manifold; like we did.

The beautiful view from our cottage in kanyal,about 4 kms from manali city and it is one of the many.

PLACES TO VISIT

as there are so many places to see, i would like to catagorize them into must see and should see sights for you, as you realise that in one trip theres a chance that you might not be able to see it all.

THE MUST GO's :

1. The Hadimba devi temple :

Hadimba Temple in Manali or Dhungiri temple in Manali is one of the most important temples in the region.

This four story wooden temple is located in the middle of a forest called the Dhungiri Van Vihar. From the name of the forest parkland this temple derives its name. This temple was erected in 1553 and is dedicated to Goddess Hadimba.

2. Kullu dusshehra

if you are in the valley in oct, u surely cant miss it

Celebrated in : Kullu Valley in Himachal Pradesh

Time: October
Famous Attractions : Processions and Rath Yatra

Other Attractions : Folk Music and Dance, Ram Lila, Burning of Ravan Effigy

3. Solang valley

The resort town Manali on the way to Rohtang pass known for its summer and winter sports. The sports most commonly offered are parachuting, paragliding, skating and zorbing. Giant slopes of lawn comprise Solang Valley and provide

it its reputation as a popular ski resort. A few ski agencies offering courses and equipment reside here and operate only during winters.Snow melts during the summer months and skiing is then replaced by zorbing (a giant ball with room for 2 people which is rolled down a 200 meter hill), paragliding, parachuting and horse riding. A ropeway was recently opened.

4. rohtang pass:
If you want to feel the touch of snow even in scorching summers, the take up Rohtang pass tourism in Himachal Pradesh. This is one of the highest mountain passes in the world that is located at a convenient distance of 51 KM from Manali. Connecting Kullu valley with Lahaul and Spiti valleys of Himachal

Pradesh, this pass is open from the months of May to November. Located at a height of 3978 m, this pass acts as a cultural bridge to the upper Himalayas that have a strong Buddhist influence from the middle Himalaya, that primarily has a Hindu culture.

Take a trip to Himachal Pradesh's Rohtang pass to enjoy the best of nature and culture. Though this pass has earned the title of being a little obnoxious and dangerous due to its unpredictable snowstorms and high winds, every tourist yearns to visit

Rohtang pass in Himachal Pradesh. Rohtang pass is considered as the world's highest jeep able road.

please note that the road is closed every tuesday , and try start early for the trip as the road from manali has frequent and long traffic jams.

5. Raison:

The town of Raison, in Himachal Pradesh is located at a distanc

e of about 16 kms from the famous town of Kullu, and is about 1433 km above sea level. Raison is actually a small bunch of villages on the banks of the Bias River. It is famous for camping sites and it is the starting point for white-water rafting on the Bias River. Bounded by the river, foliage and soaring mountain ranges in the backdrop of the camping zone of Raison, there are several apple orchards along with many fruits like plums and apricots. In the month of March,many budding blooms of these fruits are at their peak of flowering phases.

other places to visit:

1. Vashisht (3 kms)

Three kms from Manali is the village of Vashisht, which is renowned for its hot sulphur

springs. The village is also the site of some old temples, dedicated to the great sage Vashisht, and to Lord Rama. The Himachal Tourism sulphur baths are just beyond these shrines.

2. The Manali Gompa

A new Monastery built in the 1960's it is an important gathering place for buddhists from Lalaul, Spiti, kinnaur, Ladakh, Nepal and Tibet.The Gompa is famous for its wall paintings, Chortens and a large statue of Lord Buddha.

3. Naggar
the naggar castle
Nagar, a lovely village set on a hill sourrounded by forests, was the capita of kullu in the 16th century and the monuments in the region are witness to its glorious past. The Naggar Castle, a stone and wood structure built by Raja Sidh singh over 500 years ago, has been converted in to a heritage hotel. The gracefully built castle has a temple in the courtyard and also houses a small museum.

4. Manu Temple (2 kms)

This is dedicated to the sage Manu. Just near the Hadimba temple flows the Manalsu River, that culminates in the main Beas river. Across the Manalsu river is the original village of Manali, that houses the ancient temple of the sage Manu. Manali itself is named after Manu, who is said to have dwelt here.

what happened to earth- the forbidden planet

2011-03-30T00:14:00.000-07:00

Dear Diary,

Earth was a beautiful planet, they used to call it the Blue planet...It had diverse forms of lives....

there never was any time when the species of the planet were not evolving...The animals in there got smarter and smarter..Their average iq was 100!!! while in here we eat our extra brain...I used to think why the need but our expidition tells us all..

The people who dominated the earth for thousands of years never had artillary on their skin, They dint had claws or wings...They had two most amazing evolutionary traits:

The opposable thumb
Their Iq

It would have been a fine experience to be a homo sapein on earth well before they started developing into monsters they eventually became, and to think how blissfully ignorant they were of their end...which happened suddenly...

But the earthiens, met their end because they were too smart...they all were so intelligent that they forgot that they are lucky to be alive...and that they stopped caring , and those who cared knew the end was near. They could have possibly saved it if they would have been a bit more loud and brave.

After us, the homosapiens are the only species which had lived for so long... The earlier missions by our people to meet them were discarded only because those fellows would have tried to domesticate us. I was hoping that they would have realized it at some point but they just missed it all along.

Their zeal to outrun their competetors was even more than the zeal to survive. large brained people taught us to keep our monsters shut from the craving to be the master of all.

Now dear diary, i leave you here along with this supersonic radar. We are going home now...but if there is any human being left alive ..i wish he finds this and asks for help.

THE SULCI Vs THE GYRI

2010-09-02T12:43:00.001-07:00

Ive been alive for 22 years..... being raised up in a country where theres second largest population while around 16% of land area in the world means, we have been through a hell lot of competition.....

in our country there is competition for toddlers as to which playschool they get themselves in....we dnt let our children play , we prepare them for war even before they are born... We dont remember ourselves that small but what about now?

Well i am a student and i like it so much that i intend to be one for atleast half a decade more, whatever; an average student like me in whichever state of India, have one thing in common ; EXAMS.

So here we go, millions of brains, thousands of books, hundreds of days but wait, whats this, are u kidding me the exam is tomorrow ?

so here flows a xyz watt electric current through the brains of millions of students...

10 hours before exam : 25 chapters, target :3 chapters per hour

9 hours before exams: target 4 chapters per hour

8 hours for exam to start: i am hungry, make maggi, call friends, disturb foes

7 hours: target 4 chapters evry 45 mins

6 hours to go : i am sleepyyy zzzzzzz, ask 3 people in different parts of nation to call me up aftr an hour , also inform the hostel about it

5 hours left and i am snoooozing

ohhh shit!!!

wtf

helllo mumma, yess yesss i m awake now lemme finish this up

oh jesus save me

3 hours to go and i go through 6 chapters, i stop smiling but start vibrating and singing loudly as ive put on rock music to help myself against distraction, distractin, you read it correct!!

2 hours i take bath and drink coffee and complete other 4 chapters; hell where did this new text come in the book , i swear it wasnt there before!!

1 hour, have bfast, bath, pray, get some extra oxygen and 15 chapters to go

30 mins and 10 more chapters covered

reached examination hall : completed the rest 5 chapters, revised the " main" topics and pray to god again then helped others with verbal revision and now i m ready for any test in the world.

Now this makes me proudly believe that our country has sharpest and well developed brains in the whole world and that we are fighters, not survivors... be proud of our country and take care of it... put your brains in right direction and help as much as you can, work for our nation....:)

the forbidden planet flashback

2010-09-02T12:38:00.000-07:00

Aliens exist but are yet to visit earth

Tue, Aug 31 03:06 PM

Beijing, Aug 31 (IANS) Extra-terrestrial beings do exist but they have not yet come to visit our planet, and the best way to communicate with aliens is to send radio signals, a top Chinese official said Tuesday.

Zhu Jin, curator of the Beijing Planetarium, said aliens are likely to be present on some planets. Since there are about one trillion planets going around fixed stars, the possibility of the earth being the only planet with living creatures was 'too slim to be true', China Daily reported.

But as to reports of sighting of unidentified flying objects (UFOs), Zhu said they cannot be true.

Some UFOs were proved to be planes, kites or other normal objects, and many weird situations can be re-demonstrated and re-created, he said.

Zhu said the distance the Voyager 1 spacecraft has travelled in the past 33 years only accounts for one-thousandth of the solar system's reach. It will take 10,000 years for human beings to visit planets outside the solar system.

So, if aliens living in a faraway planet have a similar level of intelligence as human beings, it was impossible for them to travel to earth, he said.

unless dear diary they are us......We are here and we are invisible to them....they cant see us but we can... their language is simple.... but we are here for a purpose, a purpose beyond their imagination....

THE FORBIDDEN PLANET IV

2010-06-22T22:29:00.000-07:00

I AM GOING TO THE FORBIDDEN PLANET

TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!

FOR TWO EARTH YEARS

PART OF TRUTHISFIRE COMMITTEE

MUM IS SCARED OUT OF HER WITS

M TOO EXCITED TO FORM SENTENCES

ILL TAKE U ALONG DEAR DIARY

The forbidden planet III

2010-05-26T08:36:00.001-07:00

Prothornicurous
*&^$
Dear diary,
Had a wonderful day tonight!!! I am having my own flying license now:) thank god little charliezi gave me my new reebok wings
time to party...yahooooo
party reminds me , i saw a diary of an old woman of the forbidden planet in the grangier library party meet
today... grangier library gives directions to those whom she feels must read..the mind map was very exhaustive m awed to be in it today.... (P.S. i flew on my way there too :D).
so now our earthen alien friend was 9 years old ;more old than our great grandpa...her name was Ursula.... she belonged to united states of America, which was one of the land masses on earth.... there was a story of a plane crash in some towers ... Humans could die sudden death unlike ours and i dont know why she was sad about it... maybe she wasnt taught how to suppress self pitying hormones in preschool...
you know these hormones produced so many emotions in ursula that she cried.... her fellows couldnt survive because they dint had ninja titanium turtle shells.... if i find Ursula , ill generate one for her!
one line from her diary " i am shocked at how people conspire to kill some others of whom they dont even know about, my uncle had a month old child i wish he wouldnt have gone to wtc that day.. may his soul rest in peace and so be the others "
now I wish to see earth one day...what has remained of it, what it originally was like, what is a tower, how could so many people fly together, i mean dint their wings tangle?, what was oxygen like? why couldnt humans read other's mind? even an infant knowshow to do that here... God!! m tired and exhausted.
Mummy is surprised to see me sober for so long so is pluto.....Ill get back to research after jogging four rounds of equator.....that would be enough of the rest i require to regain energy..anyhow
good night,
Gabraile

The forbidden planet II

2010-05-23T07:08:00.000-07:00

prothornicurous
!@#$%
dear diary,
miss daffodilarity said if my project the forbidden planet is considered exhaustive enough, i will be allowed to travel 150 light years and actually try and find the aliens of planet earth!!!!
i am excited a lot :)
The forbidden planet was formed billions of years ago in a galaxy called milky way.... This planet was blue instead of our red planet.... it had very queer things in it....like water which is something which is made up in our body on its own....There were wide variety of animals there who were interdependent on one another.... the planet was self sustaining until a new breed of organisms evolved from it..... These animals are our predecessors, infact miss suzie said another day that the cause of their extinction was their overdeveloped brain which was unable to concentrate on the relevant matters but were keen on self sustainance only...... Their iq was more than ours but that proved detrimental to them... the language we speak , the technology we use actually was discovered by them.... our species was made up of a synthetic bacteria made by humans who incorporated the features of their favourite organisms in us over time.
These features were called genes...so we are made up of half of a mans brain, strong like indian tiger, fast like cheetah, friendly like dog, hard working like horse, happy like dolphin, frugitarious like elephants , self sustaining like plants and some more....we were an experimment wherein humans converted us into a biodiversified organism who just need gravity to live.......
thanku humans ...ill try finding out more about you tommorow.......time to rotate the planet and look for dad in the sky...
gnyt
Garbraile

THE FORBIDDEN PLANET I

2010-05-20T03:35:00.000-07:00

Prothornicurous; #$^&
Dear diary,
i went to tenth standard today....my second birthday is after four months.... m so excited about it... Today when i went to library i saw a picture of a planet called earth... after that i prompt the librarian to give me more information. It promised me that it would ... i think i would love to study more about the planet as my curiosity project... oops mumma calling i have to change my intestines and pancreas today .... will tell u the details tomorrow!! please do not tell all this to her she hates discussing about the forbidden planet and its history , she tells me papa will sharpen my tail and i wont be able to sit for a month then.... i have a feeling somebody is reading you, i want to say that i dont want to hurt anyone ... if still you want to now more about the earth and how it got extinct, read on!!!
love,
Garbriale

THE SLANG GENERATION :p

2010-04-09T03:44:00.000-07:00

Theres no doubt in the fact that language is a highly specialized skill of humans ... in a way its a complicated form of signals other animals use..... wateva, due to the formation of global village all the different kinda lingos which once developed in geographically different regions, is being converted into a cool universal one...........
but the origin and propagation of these have lead to widespread bewilderness amongst the poor unsocial people tch tch...............
When i joined college and till now .... there are many slangs ive learnt.... dont know how many more to go but whats itching me is that why not we make a few and try to propagate them maybe someday it hits the gen X.... the things which inspire -
lols... muaah....fyi...wtf....shoot....brb ....just while writing these i wonder what would princess mia's( fame princess diaries), grandma would feel about it... whoops sorry granny.....
and imagine jst like muaah, we make our written conversation with sound effects....
" Respected boss,
fyi achooooooooooo ...... sorry for that.... sniff snifff....... i m having a bad phrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr( this can b the sound of blowing your nose) cold..... sniiiiiieeef.... allow me leave till i get fine achoooooo.... uhu hu hu,brb
yours snifff sincerely,
thanks phrrrrrrrr"
that would make your boss understand the gravity of situation and if god forbids hes like mine and doesnt reacts to this kinda application... smear the application with your sputum that should do the trick........

BALANCE AMONGST UNEQUALS

2010-03-20T08:40:00.000-07:00

I used to idolise my english teacher in school. Once we were reading some poem and she told us that day that jealousy and envyness are two opposite things but still theyre used as synonyms....If you are envious that means you would love to be in the persons shoes but you dont feel bad about it....jealousy she said was the copyright of the Satan inside us....Whenever you are jealous you are bad....

Given a chance,(well its my own blog, yippieeee!!!!!!!!), id like to classify humans into two catagories based on their instincts-

the pushers or shovers

the royal losts ( i admittedly belong to this catagory)

so i fail to understand about the shovers , actually there are many things like,
how do they seem to know everything?
why are they always in a hurry?
why do they like to complete their work before its taught?
why do i have to keep good relations with people only because they have power? etc etc......

so the pushers and shovers , what i believe is , have the genes of the era wherein the population was too high and there was survival of the fittest....remember Will Smith in The Persuit of Happiness?? a shover...
The shovers will never sit till they reach the top, they want to be the first ones, to be admired and if by chance heavens forbids there are two of them in one same project, god save the rest! They ,with my sincere apologies, are jealous of any other persons success... They are wild...

But the thing is the lazy bums never seem to work hard towards surviving, because the failure doesnt deter them as their too much doting parents have killed the survival instinct inside them... isnt it dangerous too??

Maybe the shovers succeed in life far more frequently.... but they seem to have lost to admire the moral grounds on which our constitution is laid....
imagine each of the hundreds of millions of pushers in our country....do we really need a mass stampede??
who will take care of all the dead bodies then?
perhaps it will make our community more on the wild animals side who dont even come to know that they should breed fast because they are endangered because all they want is to kill others..

The lazy royals who have a good heart will perhaps balance the rest and make our planet humane, and if they by chance develop the green face of jealousy, theyre even worse... in that case id like to sleep till i whither away.

Whenever we work, whenever you stay with people, dont even secretly be jealous of someone....instead compliment them and get up you lazy coutch potato,Stop dreaming forever and buckle up!!!!And for our lovely pushers... please push some lazies along with you too!!....
See you all at the top :)

ON THE CONTRARY.......

2010-03-19T05:52:00.000-07:00

It struck my mind only when one friend( obviously a male , you will know why as you read).....texted me on eighth of a march..... " We celebrated Women's day here...I loved it but temme why only women get to have a full day to themselves whereas we dont?" Later in the same message he accepted that men are not nice enough for the previlege.....

Well recently when i heard about the 33% reservation for women in the House of Parliament, I felt overwhelmed at the thought of it and now .... i think id go for it now that my chances at this have increased to 33%!!!!!!!!!!

Being a commoner throughout my life, without any special skills except imitating pigs ;)....I HATE RESERVATIONS but this post isnt doing anything to make male chauvanists feel better.... Hereby I want to acknowledge that all the "breadwinners".....have some problems in their genetic makeup which naturally tries to make them " I am smarter, I know it all, specially what you dont".....
sorry to all the decent guys in my life , but this is what you should avoid, please :)

" oh girls cant drive"
or
" you dont know what life really is"
or
" i can repair our car, our geyser, the leaking taps of our home"
or
" you going alone? so late at night?"
or
"stay away from that person"

All i mean is we can really figure out the answer as equals if we dont think what gender we belong to whenever some kind of problem arises..... You shouldnt make things so apparant that we( i m the girls party) feel like vulnerable because we aint most of times and when we are, we would love to take your help and also because our society is already quite confused with girls who behave like boys, boys who behave like girls, homosexuals , boyish boys and girly girls.... wonder whos next, half and half???

However on the contrary we love it when guys open the car's door, or put up with our luggage while travelling, remember all those crazy roads most of the girls never seem to remember or simply telling us," we will be proud to be related to you when you become an MLA :)"

so basically the society needs people who have mutual respect for each other ............. and the resevation is a good step to help make us equal....I just wish there comes a stream where we have quotas for males, home science anyone??? :p

ALL OR NONE?

2010-03-18T05:49:00.000-07:00

Now this is one question which can haunt anybody at anytime.... my first encounter with this rather annoying fact of being a homosapien was when i was probably two years old and one uncle asked, beta chocolate or ice cream???

In prompteiu the answer was, both... well i believe this is a trait which every person on earth has , how mean it is to make us feel deprived of what we cannot have, right??

i think some people improve themselves with time...or adjust( a word which i know, but never understood)...

so i applied all or none principle throughout my life,whenever i could, but it has given me more troubles than happiness....
for example:

eating both chocolates and toffees and what else made me obese :(
I faught with my sibling for a better part of my life ( when we could have been best friends) because i wanted all the attention in the world from my parents.
then i wanted every one to like me and i ignored my parents .... duh
Then i couldnt share my best friends with others so i sobbed instead of spending a healthy happy life for either of us.

so guys this is what i learnt from yet a small and insignificant life till date - Each twenty four hours, just take out some time to reflect on what you can do so that the people who matter most , ( and not every tom or harry) , they smile and enjoy living.... with you.... everyday make them realise that they matter , dont keep secrets, be truthful and work hard for present as its the only thing which is .... present...
amen

Randomness I

2010-03-17T03:53:00.000-07:00

i love to travel alone by bus when i am going home.... It takes eight hours for me to reach my hometown from the place i work, considering ive visited my home twice this week!!!( good lord, we dont have delux buses till chandigarh!!!)... i was wondering off many things, are there more people like me??
god can answer this but one things for sure its all worth it when i get hugs and grins and treats and gifts , the food is stuffed inside you that you can survive a decade , perhaps more without it( no wonder people used to call me golu back in college)...
lets see what kind of thoughts are there when we are all by ourself... immobilised for hours:

1. Its been like five years i am travelling in buses, the railways are not well developed in the part of our country, countless times all ive concentrated is on how not to pee in my pants!!!!! " please drive fast you moron!!, distract distract, songs, podcasts... finally all i do is pray and promise god that ill be careful next time"... till date my record is phew almost clean :)

2. I think of the ways to irritate my brother( whos trying to get into a law college ) , with the gifts for the people of ages 0 to 5!!! till now i proudly declare ive given him a fake egg, a pink soft toy, a water tank, a horse which moves in circles, a pen which gives you a mild shock amongst others....

3. I think of all the worries and decide that i am indeed strong enough to handle them