To be loyal

Its good to be a part of a fraternity.... We all want to be a part of something since the age we actually start  forming ideas....Though I cannot lay enough stress on the importance of living in a way your conscious allows you to, but sometimes its more gratifying to stick with what you believed in and accepting the consequences ..

The first thing that comes into my mind when i say loyal is the wagging tail and absolutely kissable face of my dog  ... He is so loyal that our family is most important to him (  after food and bitches ofcourse, but thats how it should be) , but think what if your pet becomes angry at you at every little thing you do and not treat you affectionately ? Do you actually believe that you are THAT nice ?

I cannot say that everything my friends or family do are acceptable to me... I love it when my little brother corrects my spellings and pronounciations , though I hate it when he plagiarises...  Similarly sometimes its difficult to believe that how do my friends live with their absolutely stupid decisions( or well maybe I'm being stupid)

I mean sometimes i find it fun to defend something, aware that I might be wrong in a certain manner , mostly because of the little ego thing and also to make others hyterical ...

Dont we love our country no matter what?

Life is a mixture of love and hate and we should try to stick to what we have till its even more painful to stay with them, appreciate the good in your relationships and ignore the small tiffs , till it becomes a crack..

P.S. : This post is dedicated to Shahrukh khan , whose loyal fan I will be till  he actually does another 20-30 dud roles ;P

                                         picture taken from the web

A little of this, a lot of that

There are sometimes things which make the most happy go lucky person on the earth, or the most timid of all people feel as if they were made of playdough and somebody just put their hand inside their pericardium and make them realise that their heart bleeds.......

Its been three years ,when a group of teenagers trained by the most dangerous of the evil minds in the world came and shocked the world and killed innocent commuters , just like that...

We all are wierd, theres some genetics playing a part wherein we learn to move on if we survive no matter how difficult the situation becomes.... When I was younger I used to feel that this nature is a mean and selfish thing and it should go away through evolution but this makes us what we are...

Whenever you go to a self pity mode or feel like a victim of the world at large ; and deep inside you know, nobody else can help you.... Just feel happy to be alive, there are a thousands of reasons.... The most important being , an emotionally bonded society , bonds of survival, of the lucky ones who just cant stop living..:)

take a look at these group of individuals, a little bit of dance can trigger a lot of emotions :)

enjoy

I am sorry, Irishmen!

It was a thursday afternoon, I was in my hostel after a long and rainy day. I walked into the mess as the lunch was still being served. As soon as I reached the mess; the brightly coloured chairs do make you feel pleasant ; checked out the menu :

Brinjal aaloo it said, with somehow , a crooked j ,which looked like a pirate's wooden leg which we see so often in movies and then , a cat purred...

..... Its a really healthy cat we have in the mess, unlike the others who loiter around outside ... and boy!! it had a wicked face. The plate in my hand was still and my legs were fixed for a moment or two, till someone shooed it away.

I was just trying to imagine what would i do if i ever came face to face with a tiger, given the condition i went into looking at a cat and telling God He had given a characteristic bullying feature to the cat family , which atleast I didn't had.

And then came the life changing moment in my life, i took a serve of the brinjal-aloo(aloo= potatoees, for those who dont know)... It looked not bad ....It looked as if somebody had made mashed potatoes but added a lot of seeds and big red chillies in it,still i was :)..  let me explain my love for potatoes briefly:

As a vegetarian who hated paneer , the one and only vegetable which had never disappointed me in all these years is potatoes along with a few others ; but seriously , my love for potatoes is so much that I love to believe that somewhere I have some Irish genes inside me... So I had practically  never disliked potatoes in any form they were served to me ... and then i took a bite of the dish we know as brinjal aloo, 

It was like eating a mollusc who had diarrhoea 

It was as if you had a rat's intestine in lunch with undigested grains

It was like somebody puked inside the vessel in which it was made 

I saw my room mate eating it happily and bombed her with atleast ten questions:

Q. What is it?

A. Brinjal aaloo..its written na..

Q. why is it white ???

A. (counter question) what else would it be?

A2. I have never eaten this vegetable this way. It used to be yellowish in my previous hostel

Q. Do you like it?

A. Uhuh..

Q. But theres nothing pleasant in it

A. Eat your Dal then

Q. Do you like potatoes?

A. yes, i do

I try eating the dish and not leaving leftovers in potato form,

feel disgusted ,

give up

Q. Do you mind if i write a blog about this dish and tell everybody how bad it was?

A, (smiling) I wont mind.

I would have taken a picture for you guys but didn't had my phone with me, but now I plan to be camera ready whenever I go to have a meal..

to let live...

http://www.thehindu.com/opinion/op-ed/article2412675.ece?homepage=true

I just came across this article published in The Hindu. And sincerely , i dont know whether I will ever be ready to form an opinion on whether there should be a right to take lives for the sake of justice or not.

I dont know why there is no consensus amongst people from all over the world for this, but capital punishment is for the rarest of the rare cases indeed and mostly it is for the humans who are uncapable of reform; still the thought , what if the person wasnt guilty or what if it was an accident or what if there was a scope of reform? makes one shudder!!

confusion! confusion!

old habits die hard, they say.But it gives me a sense of relief ; atleast they die in this phrase.

Everywhere around me , i see a lot of people, chasing their dreams. Somebody paints and makes the canvas alive; somebody else sing like the music is made for them; people dance so well ; people support Anna Hazare..... It is as if everybody is made to do something really special and original in their life....

But nobody tells them what they have to do, people just seem to have an instinct about what they are good at... There are some things which make you forget the ticking of the clock, everything else comes a step behind it..

I just felt it today,

The time stopped,

the people became nicer,

brain starting churning ( after five years or more)

and i spoke , and people listened... i argued they seemed convinced ....

And then i realise :

Damn it , they are still better than you :( :P :) ;)

confession of a " punjabi "

Oh hellow my dear fellow,

I get up in the morning, with a cheery face,

I go to a walk at an abnormal pace,

To each and everyone i wave and greet,

most of them find it wierd and some think i am sweet ;)

I live to laugh , eat and sleep,

I love my vacations on my jeep,

I love to be surrounded by thousands of people,

Chotu does my work as i like to keep it simple..

I love to speak more than anyone,

(even if i dont know the topic),(( oh heck it is fun!!,))

money is nothing a long as it keeps on coming,

It helps me woo the girl who is most stunning..

I dont look for troubles but still they find me,

and in amusing troubles do they land me,

I might aswell be the loudest of all,

If you are in trouble my friend; just gimme a call ;)

Who blames wins

We, the people of India , have solemnly resolved to be the be the biggest frauds, cheaters and sadists in the world.

We have made sure that our country is the biggest in scams in the whole world.

If i had my own school... the most important question in the paper of the social studies in my school would have been :

list the scams of India for 2010-2011 in chronological order, The child who answers atleast 10 in detail would get good marks.

Once a family went to a national park , on seeing an antelope, the five year old child asks, what animal is this, father?

A buck, replies the father.

oh so this is what the politicians pass everynight at the news!!!

In our law college i expect at the case studies , they tell us the sillest defences against scams by the Indians.

Or Maybe when a history book will be published twenty years from now, there will be a question to the students: Which of the following Prime Ministers claimed that he knew nothing that was happening under his nose , in five different scams in the late 2000??