BALANCE AMONGST UNEQUALS

I used to idolise my english teacher in school. Once we were reading some poem and she told us that day that jealousy and envyness are two opposite things but still theyre used as synonyms....If you are envious that means you would love to be in the persons shoes but you dont feel bad about it....jealousy she said was the copyright of the Satan inside us....Whenever you are jealous you are bad....

Given a chance,(well its my own blog, yippieeee!!!!!!!!), id like to classify humans into two catagories based on their instincts-

• the pushers or shovers
  

• the royal losts ( i admittedly belong to this catagory)

so i fail to understand about the shovers , actually there are many things like,
how do they seem to know everything?
why are they always in a hurry?
why do they like to complete their work before its taught?
why do i have to keep good relations with people only because they have power? etc etc......

so the pushers and shovers , what i believe is , have the genes of the era wherein the population was too high and there was survival of the fittest....remember Will Smith in The Persuit of Happiness?? a shover...
The shovers will never sit till they reach the top, they want to be the first ones, to be admired and if by chance heavens forbids there are two of them in one same project, god save the rest! They ,with my sincere apologies, are jealous of any other persons success... They are wild...

But the thing is the lazy bums never seem to work hard towards surviving, because the failure doesnt deter them as their too much doting parents have killed the survival instinct inside them... isnt it dangerous too??

Maybe the shovers succeed in life far more frequently.... but they seem to have lost to admire the moral grounds on which our constitution is laid....
imagine each of the hundreds of millions of pushers in our country....do we really need a mass stampede??
who will take care of all the dead bodies then?
perhaps it will make our community more on the wild animals side who dont even come to know that they should breed fast because they are endangered because all they want is to kill others..

The lazy royals who have a good heart will perhaps balance the rest and make our planet humane, and if they by chance develop the green face of jealousy, theyre even worse... in that case id like to sleep till i whither away.

Whenever we work, whenever you stay with people, dont even secretly be jealous of someone....instead compliment them and get up you lazy coutch potato,Stop dreaming forever and buckle up!!!!And for our lovely pushers... please push some lazies along with you too!!....
See you all at the top :)

ON THE CONTRARY.......

It struck my mind only when one friend( obviously a male , you will know why as you read).....texted me on eighth of a march..... " We celebrated Women's day here...I loved it but temme why only women get to have a full day to themselves whereas we dont?" Later in the same message he accepted that men are not nice enough for the previlege.....

Well recently when i heard about the 33% reservation for women in the House of Parliament, I felt overwhelmed at the thought of it and now .... i think id go for it now that my chances at this have increased to 33%!!!!!!!!!!

Being a commoner throughout my life, without any special skills except imitating pigs ;)....I HATE RESERVATIONS but this post isnt doing anything to make male chauvanists feel better.... Hereby I want to acknowledge that all the "breadwinners".....have some problems in their genetic makeup which naturally tries to make them " I am smarter, I know it all, specially what you dont".....
sorry to all the decent guys in my life , but this is what you should avoid, please :)

" oh girls cant drive"
or
" you dont know what life really is"
or
" i can repair our car, our geyser, the leaking taps of our home"
or
" you going alone? so late at night?"
or
"stay away from that person"

All i mean is we can really figure out the answer as equals if we dont think what gender we belong to whenever some kind of problem arises..... You shouldnt make things so apparant that we( i m the girls party) feel like vulnerable because we aint most of times and when we are, we would love to take your help and also because our society is already quite confused with girls who behave like boys, boys who behave like girls, homosexuals , boyish boys and girly girls.... wonder whos next, half and half???

However on the contrary we love it when guys open the car's door, or put up with our luggage while travelling, remember all those crazy roads most of the girls never seem to remember or simply telling us," we will be proud to be related to you when you become an MLA :)"

so basically the society needs people who have mutual respect for each other ............. and the resevation is a good step to help make us equal....I just wish there comes a stream where we have quotas for males, home science anyone??? :p

ALL OR NONE?

Now this is one question which can haunt anybody at anytime.... my first encounter with this rather annoying fact of being a homosapien was when i was probably two years old and one uncle asked, beta chocolate or ice cream???

In prompteiu the answer was, both... well i believe this is a trait which every person on earth has , how mean it is to make us feel deprived of what we cannot have, right??

i think some people improve themselves with time...or adjust( a word which i know, but never understood)...

so i applied all or none principle throughout my life,whenever i could, but it has given me more troubles than happiness....
for example:

• eating both chocolates and toffees and what else made me obese :(
• I faught with my sibling for a better part of my life ( when we could have been best friends) because i wanted all the attention in the world from my parents.
• then i wanted every one to like me and i ignored my parents .... duh
• Then i couldnt share my best friends with others so i sobbed instead of spending a healthy happy life for either of us.

so guys this is what i learnt from yet a small and insignificant life till date - Each twenty four hours, just take out some time to reflect on what you can do so that the people who matter most , ( and not every tom or harry) , they smile and enjoy living.... with you.... everyday make them realise that they matter , dont keep secrets, be truthful and work hard for present as its the only thing which is .... present...
amen

Randomness I

i love to travel alone by bus when i am going home.... It takes eight hours for me to reach my hometown from the place i work, considering ive visited my home twice this week!!!( good lord, we dont have delux buses till chandigarh!!!)... i was wondering off many things, are there more people like me??
god can answer this but one things for sure its all worth it when i get hugs and grins and treats and gifts , the food is stuffed inside you that you can survive a decade , perhaps more without it( no wonder people used to call me golu back in college)...
lets see what kind of thoughts are there when we are all by ourself... immobilised for hours:

1. Its been like five years i am travelling in buses, the railways are not well developed in the part of our country, countless times all ive concentrated is on how not to pee in my pants!!!!! " please drive fast you moron!!, distract distract, songs, podcasts... finally all i do is pray and promise god that ill be careful next time"... till date my record is phew almost clean :)

2. I think of the ways to irritate my brother( whos trying to get into a law college ) , with the gifts for the people of ages 0 to 5!!! till now i proudly declare ive given him a fake egg, a pink soft toy, a water tank, a horse which moves in circles, a pen which gives you a mild shock amongst others....

3. I think of all the worries and decide that i am indeed strong enough to handle them