ALL OR NONE?

Now this is one question which can haunt anybody at anytime.... my first encounter with this rather annoying fact of being a homosapien was when i was probably two years old and one uncle asked, beta chocolate or ice cream???

In prompteiu the answer was, both... well i believe this is a trait which every person on earth has , how mean it is to make us feel deprived of what we cannot have, right??

i think some people improve themselves with time...or adjust( a word which i know, but never understood)...

so i applied all or none principle throughout my life,whenever i could, but it has given me more troubles than happiness....
for example:

• eating both chocolates and toffees and what else made me obese :(
• I faught with my sibling for a better part of my life ( when we could have been best friends) because i wanted all the attention in the world from my parents.
• then i wanted every one to like me and i ignored my parents .... duh
• Then i couldnt share my best friends with others so i sobbed instead of spending a healthy happy life for either of us.

so guys this is what i learnt from yet a small and insignificant life till date - Each twenty four hours, just take out some time to reflect on what you can do so that the people who matter most , ( and not every tom or harry) , they smile and enjoy living.... with you.... everyday make them realise that they matter , dont keep secrets, be truthful and work hard for present as its the only thing which is .... present...
amen